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Answer: We can only control what we ourselves talk about and post publicly, such as on social media. Even where hostility already is expressed, we can set the better tone, or a good example of respectful, fair, and kind dialogue. Remember what parents have repeated to their children for generations - If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all. God inspired more about this to be recorded in His scriptures. Not only does He mean for us not to hurt others with our words but to select them to encourage and grow others to understand His great love for them! “A gentle tongue is a tree of life, but perverseness in it breaks the spirit.” Proverbs 15:4 “There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.” Proverbs 12:18 Most important of all is whether our words – which spring from deep in our souls – are pleasing to God. Regardless of the public image we would like for others to see, Jesus said that words reveal a great deal about our true thoughts and how we live whenever we open our mouths to speak: “Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.” Matthew 12:34, Luke 6:45 “…the things that come out of the mouth come from the heart, and these things defile a man…out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery sexual immorality, theft, false witness, slander.” Matthew 15:19 Next, what is important to God is the way we treat others. When people know we are Christians, will they be drawn to God and His love we share among ourselves, or will they be repelled by our insincerity? We are His ambassadors and represent Him to a dying world. Tragically, a person’s bad impression of hypocritical followers of Jesus may never be undone, which means the heart of an observer may become hardened to the truths about God so that he or she misses out on salvation. What a sobering responsibility we have! “If anyone thinks he is religious and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his heart, this person’s religion is worthless.” James 1:26 If we lose our honorable reputation, we lose a great deal – in our church, community, and family! Trust collapses and doors close. If we respond badly in anger and malice, no one will take our claims of faith in God seriously anymore. The Bible states that having “ a good name ” should be more desirable than monetary riches. (Proverbs 22:1) When people can see that we act on what we say we believe, then they trust us and are willing to open their own hearts and minds to hear the message of Jesus Christ. When Jesus was asked what was the most important commandment, He responded to love God with all our hearts, souls, and minds, and to love our neighbors as much as we love ourselves. (Matthew 22:35-40, Mark 12:28-34, Luke 10:27) Our speech demonstrates love for God and others, or, sadly, a lack of it. “…neither filthiness, not foolish talking, not coarse joking, which are not appropriate, but rather giving thanks.” Ephesians 5:4 “Whoever desires to love life and see good days, let him keep his tongue from evil and his lips from speaking deceit.” I Peter 3:10 “But now you yourselves are to put off all these: anger, wrath, hate, blasphemy, filthy language out of your mouth.” Colossians 3:8 The scriptures have much more to advise as warnings about the influence of our words in the lives of people around us. With our comments, we can make or break others. That’s a lot of power. We can build peace, or we can set the world on fire! When we start a fire, we often suffer along with our victims. Have you ever hurt someone deeply with a criticism or opinion? That person may always suffer from that painful, unhealed wound. “Likewise, the tongue is a small member, yet it boasts of great things. How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small spark. The tongue is also a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell. All kinds of animals have been tamed by mankind, but no human can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. My brothers and sisters, this should not be so.“ James 3:5-10 “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.” Proverbs 18:21 God has given us life to serve Him and use our mouths to help one another by building up others – not by tearing them down. Each day, be sure to offer a good word to cheer someone’s heart, and watch and see how God blesses your life immensely, too! When we show love, people experience what God’s love feel like, possibly for the first time. “Anxiety in the heart of man causes depression, but a good word makes it glad.” Proverbs 12:25 “Let no corrupt word come out of your mouth, but what s good for necessary encouragement, that it may give favor to the hearers.” Ephesians 4:29 “Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.” Proverbs 16:24 “Let your conversations be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.” Colossians 4:6 Has God’s Holy Spirit brought forward thoughts of someone you have hurt with your words? Here’s a good place to start in making this right: Lord, thank you for bringing this broken relationship to my mind. You know who I need to apologize to and how I might better rebuild that relationship. Please help me to do this in your perfect timing and with a very humble heart. Would you prepare that person’s heart to hear my words and heal our relationship? Please transform me and rid me of my tendency to be speak hastily and harshly. I look to you for guidance, dear Father in heaven. Thank you!  “Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight, O LORD, my rock and my redeemer.” Psalm 19:14

Answer: God created us in His own image (Genesis 1:27) and allows us what is called “free will,” which means that we can choose to do right or wrong. The Bible details many people who did what was right in God’s eyes, but it reveals many who did evil. Even the main author of the […]

Answer: Heaven is real!  And Jesus even called it “Paradise.” The dictionary defines the word as bliss, happiness, and delight. The Bible confirms this description is not only true, but it’s even better than that! You don’t want to miss out on heaven, and how you can make sure you’ll be there is coming up. […]

Question:  I used to go to church, and I still believe in Jesus and that I am a Christian.  But I have drifted into doing some things that I know I should not be doing.  How can I keep from messing up my life all the time? Answer:  You mentioned that you believe in Jesus.  […]

Question: What exactly does the Bible commandment mean not to take God’s name “in vain”?  Answer: The third commandment that God gave to Moses to teach others was: “You shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain, for the Lord will not hold him guiltless who takes His name in vain.”  […]

Question: Should parents take children to church or just allow them to make the decision to attend when they are older? Answer: Attention, parents! The Bible warns that God holds parents fully accountable for their children’s spiritual instruction and guidance. For many families, most of this happens at church. Parents who neglect this do so […]

Question: Is Jesus just one of the paths to get to heaven?  Answer: The people of the many religions of the world are hoping that their earthly worship of other men, women, animals, and objects will earn for them a heavenly future. The Bible warns that, sadly, those beliefs are false. Jesus Christ is the […]

Question: I don’t feel as confident as other people seem to be about whether God will allow me into heaven when I die. Is it possible to be sure that I am a Christian? Answer: Absolutely, you can be sure! A Christian is a Christ-believer and follower of Jesus Christ. Think about when you first […]

Answer: First, understand something extremely important. When you asked Jesus Christ into your life to be your Savior, you will ALWAYS be a Christian! FOREVER. After that lifechanging choice of yours, there is nothing extra you are required to do to maintain your position as a follower of Jesus. The Bible says God performed a […]

Question: Won’t people from any religion go to heaven after death if they have been sincere in their own beliefs on earth? Answer: The idea that all people will wind up in heaven when they die regardless of what they believed is called universal salvation. Even though that idea makes us happy that they won’t […]

Question: My family is traumatized because of the sudden deaths of several relatives, and now my parents are getting a divorce. Why does God allow all of this to happen in a Christian family? Answer:  We often try to understand the reasons God didn’t intervene to block some events that He knew would cause us […]

Question: Why should I pray to God when it doesn’t do any good? Answer: It sounds like you didn’t receive an answer you were hoping for, and so you are feeling disconnected from God. However, just because you didn’t get what you expected doesn’t mean that God did not hear. In your human finite understanding, […]

Question: Why doesn’t God do something to stop the terrible suffering of people? Doesn’t He hear prayers anymore? Answer: God DOES act to relieve suffering, and He definitely DOES hear our prayers! We are not always watchful for His answers. We are not the only ones to wonder God why He allows as much heartache […]

Question: What exactly is meditation? Is it something Christians should do or avoid? Answer: The Bible speaks of meditation as important – even vital – to knowing how God is guiding your life. Here are some examples: “Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked…But his delight is in […]

Question: What does the Bible say about the Antichrist? Could he be one of our world leaders today? Answer: The term anti-christ is used for a person who is against or anti-Jesus Christ; he will be the opposite of every good thing that Jesus is and promises. The Bible predicted that many antichrists (note the […]

Question: Should I pray for people who have died so God will allow them to enter heaven? Answer: God’s infallible guidebook for us, the Bible, does not advise us to pray for anyone after his or her death. At death, a person’s destination is set and doesn’t change. It’s either the paradise of heaven or […]

Question: What should Christians should do about Halloween? Answer:  Those of us who are Christian parents struggle with whether to allow our children to take part in the observance of Halloween. It is alright for children to trick or treat? Should we allow children to attend the school Halloween parties? These are among the many […]

Question: Doesn’t the Bible have errors due to translations over the years? How can we know what is truly God’s instruction for us? Answer: This is an extremely important issue, the main one in Christianity today.  There will be no middle or “lukewarm” ground for followers of Jesus Christ, or Christians. The decision comes down […]

Question: Does God expect us to forgive and forget when people treat us wrongly? Answer: An expression we hear often is to “forgive and forget”.  It is not from the Bible, but the sentiment behind it is what God does instruct us to do. This can be hard to hear. We just don’t want to!  […]

Question: Can a person wait until he is on his deathbed to accept Jesus and go to heaven? If so, is this fair to other Christians? Answer: Our human logic tells us that it seems unfair to give the same wonderful, expensive gift to someone who has not been your friend for as long a […]

Question: How can I know whether a church is teaching the Bible’s truths and not people’s opinions? Answer: In this day of many churches conforming to our cultural trends to gain more members, it’s crucial to know what the Bible actually says. If you will read and study the scriptures, you’ll recognize what is true […]

Question:  Why would God love me when I have never done anything great but only make mistakes in my life? Answer:   You are right that God loves you even though you feel you don’t deserve it!  God, our heavenly Father, loves us immensely, but it’s not because we’ve earned it through accomplishing noteworthy deeds.  And, […]

Question: Why do Christians believe they are the only ones in the world going to heaven? I am a good person, and I believe that God will allow me into heaven when I die. Answer: Christians are followers of Jesus Christ, who the Bible indicates is the only Son of the Living God. The Bible […]

Question: Does God consider a baby a person when first conceived or when he or she leaves the mother’s womb? Answer: The Bible has much to say about how intensely God values life, and children are described as a gift and a reward from Him! In various verses in the historical record, God leaves no […]

Question: Am I not really a Christian if I still have doubts about God and heaven? Answer: It’s important to understand that if you have already told God you repented of your sins, turned away from them, and accepted Jesus’ sacrificial death to pay the penalty for your sins, then you are a Christian – […]

Question: Must I keep confessing my sins daily to God so I can be admitted to heaven? I don’t want to die unforgiven.  Answer: When you accept Jesus as your Savior and become a Christian, the beginning of that life change is admitting or confessing to God you have sinned and need His forgiveness. God […]

Question: Why are there so many different types of Christian churches? Is there one denomination that is the true one? Answer:  Christians are followers of Jesus Christ, the Son of God who came to earth to live as a man, die to take the penalty for mankind’s sins, and to be resurrected from the dead. […]

Question: What should I consider in selecting a church to join? Answer: People look for many different things in a church. Each person has different needs and usually looks at all the programs offered for adults, teens, or children. A church with varied meeting times during the week also can be convenient for working parents. […]

Question: Does God still speak to people like He did in the Bible?  Answer: Yes, He certainly does! Sometimes, we don’t recognize His answers. In the midst of  more distractions than ever before in history, we are missing His voice, His signals, and His instruction. So, it’s not that God doesn’t speak, but that we […]

Question: Is it true that Jesus “chose” to die on a cross? I thought the Jews and Romans killed Him. Answer:  It’s difficult for us to hear that Jesus actually allowed others to inflict torturous beatings on Him, and then the terrible humiliation and death on a cross. But the answer is yes – He […]

Question: Are there false forms of Christianity? Is every group calling itself a church still part of the Christian religion? Answer: True Christianity, or faith in God and His Son Jesus Christ as prescribed in the Bible, is a major issue today!  Church denominations are dividing over adherence to the truths recorded in the Bible. […]

Question: I get discouraged when I think of trying to be good enough to become a Christian. How could I lead a perfect life like people in the Bible? Answer: Many have been surprised to hear they will NOT EVER be good enough to enter heaven! The Bible tells us so. God does have a […]

Question: What exactly does it mean to be “saved” by accepting Jesus and His Gospel? Is this the only way to heaven after death? Answer: To be “saved,” one must be saved for and from something. When a person accepts the invitation from God to follow Jesus Christ, he or she is set apart or […]

Question:  Is someone a real Christian when he obeys the Ten Commandments? Answer: Many have wondered, am I a true Christian when I follow all the Bible’s rules? People have a misunderstanding of what is required to be a Christian. It’s not following a set of commandments, doing good deeds, giving all that we have […]

Question: What is the difference between the teachings of the Christian church and a false religion, like a cult? Answer:  Christianity’s principles are those that align with the life and teachings of Jesus Christ and His followers, who shared His words during the first century.  The accounts of these other God-inspired men are well-documented in […]

Question: Can we know anything about God? Answer: Absolutely! If God didn’t intend for us to get to know Him and His plans for the world, He would not have given us such a great deal of information in the Bible. God has given us these accurate, historical accounts of events and His revelations to […]

Question: Is it possible to not be afraid of death? What happens as soon as I die? Answer:  Yes, when you are a Christian, there’s nothing to fear about death because you are certain of your next stop for eternity – heaven! In Luke, chapter 16, Jesus revealed a few details of what dying and […]

Question: What is meant by the expression that Christians are “light”? Answer: The men who God inspired to write the Bible said a great deal about light. Jesus Christ is called the “Light of the World” (John 8:12).  Jesus was not only sent by God to save the Jews but the rest of the world, […]

Answer:  To have a relationship with Jesus or God is the same as “walking with God”, which means having daily communication with the Creator of the universe and living in agreement with Him.  It sounds like this would be impossible for a human being to talk with God, but it’s true! The Bible tells us […]

Answer: Often we ask, what evidence reveals that you are a Christian? Is it being born into a Christian family, attending church, having Christian friends, giving money to the church and charitable organizations, teaching Sunday school or Bible studies, going on mission trips to help others, or knowing what the Bible teaches? The answer may […]

Question: What happens to us as soon as we die? Answer: The Bible has plenty to say about death and the eternal part of a person, the soul, that continues.  One of the most wonderful passages in the Bible is when Jesus was teaching about the death of a poor man named Lazarus. In this […]

Question: Will giving to the poor help me to be admitted into heaven? Answer: While serving others is what God definitely calls us to do during this earthly life, there is no charity work that causes God to grant us permission to enter heaven! Eternity with God is not bought by us and our work, […]

Question: Are astrology and horoscopes forbidden for Christians? Answer: Horoscopes are in magazines and newspapers, but most people today may access the so-called “predictions” online. They may seem harmless, but are they? The Bible, God’s guidebook for our lives, warns on this topic.  Astrology is an ancient belief that the movement of the sun, moon, […]

Question:  Does the Bible tell the future? Answer:  We take in a lot of information each day, thanks to the Internet. We access topics and news faster than has ever been possible, in fact, at nearly lightning speeds! Did you know that the Bible told us this would happen? “But you, Daniel, shut up the […]

Question:  Why do we feel depressed during holidays that should be happy times?  Answer:  Many people suffer greatly from feelings of hopelessness and loneliness, especially during the holidays. They grieve for loved ones who have died, experience sadness for friends who are suffering in some way, long for happier times enjoyed in the past, or […]

Question:  Is there any way I can be sure that I will go to heaven when I die?  Answer:  Yes, absolutely!  The Bible, God’s words of truth to us, assures us of His eternal salvation He offers for our souls. The soul is the part of us He created to live on forever, even after […]

Question:  Will we receive rewards in heaven? Answer:  Christians often ask whether the Bible gives any details about rewards in heaven, while they are in the eternal state of life.  The main reason for the question is that people wish to know how to make sure those rewards will be waiting on them, too!  When […]

Question: How should people talk to God? Is there a right way to pray? Answer:  Talking to God, praying silently or out loud, is how our friendship with Him grows stronger.  That’s extremely important, because He wants a relationship, a friendship, more than anything else from you!  It’s not about your money or your time […]

Question:  I am a Christian but still make mistakes. Might God block me from entering heaven? Answer:  There is only one reason a person is not allowed to enter heaven:  Never accepting Jesus’ gift to you of eternal life.  During your earthly life, this is the only time you can make this choice. If you […]